Issues That Are Included With Dating A Mexican..
hey folks pleasant to our Channel that which was that? 2 weeks in the past we crafted a online video where Joss was discussing the problems which come with dating a German with dating him, particularly properly.. effectively right now we’re gonna… are you fine? I have allergies dude! nowadays we’re gonna turn it close to and I’m about to explain to you all the difficulties which come with dating a Mexican more precisely, this kind of one in this article I’m so scared of this video clip! I’m about to get offended big time however i know you adore me and I know you privately enjoy those reasons for me you think so? I’m fairly certain not every them… how dare you dude since like I mentioned before: I have a lot to say… before we start I want to mention one important thing I love you guys. I like Mexicans. I love this one particularly Mexico is certainly a diversified land and tend to be the folks.. yes that’s very correct we are available in every form, color, shape and personality and then we don’t desire to generalize anything at all.. we’re not proclaiming which every Mexican does those ideas! These things are not bad we mean that it was problematic for me as a foreigner because it was something new and I had to get used to it and not because I’m a weirdo just like in the last video I’m gonna start with the most obvious problem you have to learn English and even if your partner knows English, like she does the parents probably don’t. that’s true there’s a lot of people in Mexico that speak English or at least they know the basics but they’re so scared of speaking because of their accent or something this problem gets even bigger when you think about how big families are in Mexico and that’s the next problem you’re gonna meet a lot of people whenever you meet your boyfriend or girlfriend in Mexico and it’s Christmas, New Year, Independence bbw plus Day, a wedding a wedding… there are like weddings every month yes thats’ true, when we say “problems”! be prepared to satisfy about 100 or 200 people a day which can be area of the family members that happen to be only portion of the family! not even friends I don’t know if it’s the same for you guys but in my family, my grandparents from my mom’s side had 11 children the first time that I went to Mexico it was for Christmas I had to meet literally everybody from her family I probably know four names of her entire family don’t get overwhelmed guys… just say hi and act like you know everybody with the next point we’re gonna arrive at a very important part of Mexico: the meals you will gain body weight and that is due to a couple of things: first of all Mexican mums love to make you eat and they give you a lot of food and even when you’re done they ask you are you still hungry? have this! plus on top of that it’s hard to say no because Mexican meals are awesome delicious Oh yeah my lord I overlook it so much… please deliver me Enchiladas Potosinas make sure you! for me as well please another reason why why you’re gonna get body fat due to food is simply because it’s inexpensive when compared with Germany accurate! In the last video just mentioned that Germans are usually on time and that was a problem for her because she wasn’t used to that. yeah for me it’s the other way around because she tends to be late all the time… but you too sometimes., lets go to the next point now. I’m basically also later I’m like Mexican.. you’re one half Mexican that’s really a stereotype that we dislike I loathe when individuals say: you’re gonna be late due to the fact you’re Mexican but I’m later constantly! even though I consider my very best… that’s some thing I’ve fought with eternally the next stage i was required to get used to a great deal: you might get scared while driving a vehicle I don’t would like to generate in Mexico as well as when your companion, in such a case she, is driving Mexico you, feel like: where will be the regulations? where by are the lines on a lawn that let you know in which lane you will need to go as well as the openings dude oh my the lord there may be one particular road I need to take whenever I go to my home it offers countless openings.. I learned them my coronary heart I’m like… once you get for an intersection there is not actually a rule which says that can go first Yes! – there are also no signs you always tell me, the main one from the most significant street can go very first but for whatever reason every one of the Mexicans know where you should push it’s sound judgment bro! it had been the most awful in Mexico Town there was one extremely active streets and that we were provided by a tiny street and all of the individuals from your modest streets were just heading similar to this close to the rest of the autos in Mexico Metropolis I noticed my well being pass through my head for actual like seven times along with the individuals in the ubers had been like: yeah wassup bro! how’s the elements nowadays? talking to us eventually is really quite amazing because Mexicans definitely understand how to generate in nuts circumstances! alright another position is really a funny one particular and also an unfortunate a single.. occasionally for squares of lavatory pieces of paper is actually all that you’ll get exactly where would you expertise that? very seriously! we had been in a market place in Mexico Town and so i needed to see the bathroom and also this man in the front literally gave me several squares of lavatory paper on this page, do your personal style! and so i was like: I don’t know if that’s enough you knew it wasn’t enough! – No and that i shared with him: can I have a different one? I didn’t know this became a problem for you I mean in Germany you will discover bathroom document proper next to the bathroom.. yeah in Mexico also! yeah fine that doesn’t come about often.. We have to say this happened like twice for me… haha he’s overreacting! When I was in primary school there was a woman giving the paper oh yeah you told me that before – in the toilet she would ask you: # 1 or number 2? and if you say one she gives you one square and if you say two she would give you two or three great on the other side that’s a good thing because it’s environment-friendly you’re not using more than you need so good for you guys now we get into the real stuff oh no on to the real st- .. But no, i don’t want real stuff this problem comes up even before you start dating Mexicans are very touchy for us foreigners that might be a problem because we might think “oh my god she is flirting with me or he is flirting with me”! this is just the direction they are they’re such as this… so don’t buy your hopes up… They’re obviously girls that are not jealous at all what I’ve experienced with her in the beginning and with your friends when they talk about stuff they can get furious OMG my friends are gonna hate you next time we go to Mexico they are very like “this guy is mine, -OMG it’s crazy I’m so unaware of my body when I’m talking to someone when I first moved to Germany I met a girl at university and we were friends but we were just starting to be friends and one time we were waiting for a bus and I was like “I’m so tired” and I did this to lay on her shoulder and she moved her shoulder very very slowly and my head fell of course guys I’m not saying that every Mexican is touchy let us know in the comments what do you think the next problem is one that mostly foreigner guys might experience because Mexican girls can be very competitive or in other words kind of jealous I’m not saying that every Mexican girl is jealous! and I’m not making him head out! ” which is a little bit a lot of people but… must i help remind you of yesterday? Which is a little bit sad because it was fun to watch dude character development I’m totally like.., when we were walking on the street in Germany a guy stared at you and me literally stared back at him like this for five minutes until he stopped staring at me but you’re totally right in that regard when I started dating you I noticed that my perception of love was completely twisted because of what I was surrounded by but now she changed completely she’s super not jealous anymore. -okay you will be like.. and once I began dating you I found myself like “wow a completely new w0rld! ” We have a concept though and i also know this can be about to cause me to seem nuts but listen to me out I feel like a lot of this contemplating is molded by telenovelas. Don’t appear in my opinion! have you ever viewed a Mexican telenovela? -no -the ladies are really remarkable and they’re so jealous and they’re so like “he’s mine she’s by no means about to acquire him from me! ” exactly why is this woman looking at you? this mindless $·Percent·” footnote: It has a good side and a bad side Mexicans really show you how much they love you, they’re very affectionate she tells me she loves me like 20 times a day -and Janik it’s like “same” when you’re fighting the emotions come out without a filter and the these emotions are not pretty okay in my defense.., guys can also be very jealous so it’s not only girls just saying don’t come for us the next point is something that I had to get used to and I still have to get used to because it’s still the same it will never change Mexicans show their emotions very very strongly. If you date a Mexican I feel like there’s a very high chance you have never experienced anything like that before, this amount of love so it really changes your perspective also about love I think your perspective completely changed yeah the loving side it’s bigger than anything else -yes, yes baby yes, i have nothing to defend but I have to say I love this about Mexicans as a foreigner! see that’s what I mean.. now we get to a very interesting point and I call it “the gentleman dilemma” the thing is that in Mexico a lot of guys do very “gentlemany” things for example they buy flowers, they pick them up at their house, they open the doors and all that stuff so when a Mexican girl is dating a German she’s kind of expecting the same because she doesn’t know that he’s different so then German guys have to step up their game times a thousand ha ha ha ha to make her feel loved, because in her mind this is how love looks like and then I come along, the total opposite it’s basically just a cultural difference and you just have to meet in the middle I would say yes, now if you’re a girl from another country and you’re dating a Mexican guy then it might be super cool for you because he is just picking you up, he brings you roses and you’re like “what is this? ” in the end of the day it helped both of us because now I’m more romantic and I’m more cold-hearted ha ha ha ha that is also a plus -no, I lowered my expectations with you no, big time though.. expectations are the mother of disappointment and resentment now we get to the last point of this video and that’s a very difficult one it has roots in the old traditions of Mexicans or Europeans or religion even as a foreigner you cannot expect sleepovers and that’s a thing that I had to deal with a lot in the beginning like it was super difficult for me to understand why am I not able to stay in the same room as my girlfriend? in Germany guys can stay at the girlfriend’s home or women can tell the boyfriend’s house even though they’re lower than 18, possibly 16 they can remain at the friends of boyfriend’s house sinners! as well as in Mexico they believe the worst of individuals, they are doing a bit of extremely bad stuff that they could not do anywhere else probably the most repeated emails I get from partners is ladies which can be really inquiring me how would you make Janik realize that he cannot stay? or how can I make my parents recognize? it’s so difficult. -it’s difficult for us too -indeed each side because at the start you couldn’t understand it you had been like “I don’t have it” I used to be 22 or 23 yrs old when we began dating and so i was like “I’m so old and i also cannot stay in the identical space as her” and my sister is even more mature and her man couldn’t keep there I’m a grownup. If you have a girlfriend from Mexico and you’re having these issues just believe her when she says “this is how it works” -you might not be able to understand why but you just have to accept it I accept it, I respect it whenever I’m in Mexico -or if you like it then you should put a ring on it everything changes it is crazy, -I don’t get it either but it’s just how life works in Mexico.. we don’t want to get deep into it but! once once a ring is on that finger you’re free to go And also this might be more a problem of smaller cities like SLP where everything is like a double moral SLP is not that small.. – But compared to Mexico City I don’t know if it works differently there let us know in the comments -yeah guys we’re super curious to see what you have to say about this and how does it work wherever you’re from these were the things that I had to get used to in the beginning of us dating obviously love is stronger than all of these problems together and there are so many more good things that come when you date a Mexican or a German oh yeah and that list is way longer so if you want to see a video about that please let us know in the comments down if and below you’re just starting a relationship with a Mexican or with a German hang in there talk about things, communicate, meet in the middle so we hope you liked this video if you liked it give us a thumbs up, subscribe to our channel if you’re not already and we’ll see you next week Adios muchachos Tschuss!